The Art & Science Of “Dating, Romance, and Relationships”…
Learn How To Go From "0" To "100" With Your Love Life
John and Ashley have a combined experience level of over 30 years of learning about how relationships work. It’s not just a passion, it’s an obsession to know what works in today’s dating world.
It’s not just the aspect of going out and meeting someone new and developing a new relationship with someone. What really keeps them going is teaching others. Watching someone who wasn’t good at meeting people to becoming someone who now has relationship options.
The dating, romance, and relationship is a combination of art and science. It took years to put all the pieces together. Why? Because so many other coaches, instructors, match-makers, or whatever they want to call themselves only teach in one area. You get either self-improvement, or meeting the girl/guy, or “getting” the girl/guy, or fashion, or sex advice. What’s worse is the information is mostly subjective and for a single area of your life. It’s a band-aid for a gushing wound.
So what if instead of having five different coaches you only needed one? What if instead of subjective information, it was backed up with scientific studies? What if the studies were tested by the people giving the advice? Instead of a single area being taught with subjective information you get all the areas backed up with real proof.
We continue to work by not only keeping up with the research being done but testing the research ourselves. Then finding out where it fits within the dating, romance, and relationship realm. This kind of information can save you years of frustration and anxiety.
We have been lucky, in a sense, to have surrounded ourselves by some of the best coaches in their fields. We have also been lucky enough to have worked in other industries that complemented what the coaches were teaching. The problem is one coach would teach something, and another would disagree. Who’s right? Enter the science and research.
It’s like a golden resource of information puzzle. All the pieces are jumbled and waiting to be put together. Instead of you finding, reading, and figuring out where the pieces go we have done all of it for you. All the pieces of the puzzle are numbered for you. You just need to put them together for your life and your goals.
In today’s world, there is so much bad advice floating around that it’s no wonder people are confused. We cut through all of it with what really does work. No mind games, no manipulation, no putting on an act, or being fake.
What Makes Us So Different?
Short Answer:
It’s a simple answer with a long explanation. It’s good business to produce life-changing results. The great feeling we get when we see the change isn’t bad either.
Long Answer:
The dating world right now is evolving like crazy in hundreds of different directions. Everyone has their own little niche and their own “truth.”
A real truth is that a lot of people are calling us “the best-kept dating secret around.”
We've been pushing the envelope. We are punching gaping holes in what a lot of the dating industry holds as unquestionable truths. Coaches for women say that women should act a certain way to get a man. Coaches for men say that men should act a certain to get a man.
You have all heard it, read it, and tried it. How’s it been working out so far?
In today’s world, you can’t just “get attraction.” You can’t just go out and “seal the deal.” Both men and women are looking for the entire package. Courses that teach a single area with subjective and conflicting information are just not cutting it anymore.
The dating and relationship industry has been going crazy trying to keep up.
Many of them say they have “secrets” and they have “cracked the code.” Really? This is the internet age with over 3 billion people on the planet. There are no more secrets. Just jumbled information mixed in with bad information. The “secret” is sifting through all of it.
Of course, we don’t want other fly-by-night dating companies to start teaching the same thing. The truth is it would be hard to do if they revealed their sources and it ended up being the same source or research we reference.
That being the case, we are not that worried.
What we do know is that we are rocking the dating community to its core. We are the only service that is beginning to end. Taking someone who is not successful in dating, romance, or relationships and walking them through, chronologically, to being successful.
Each step builds upon the last. This makes the previous step more powerful than the last. The whole picture then becomes more clear as to how everything fits together and reinforces your chances of success.
Because each of these steps comes from different areas of study that are seemingly unrelated, it is unlike anything people have ever seen.
It truly does change people’s lives for the better.
This Is A Journey...
This Is Your Own Personal Odyssey Of Mastery
This isn’t just a mastery of dating, romance, and relationships. It’s mastery over self and your life.
“You mean I can get any man/woman I choose?”
That’s not what we are saying.
Success in dating, romance, and relationships is a journey. It doesn’t happen overnight.
You can go to any number of coaches, instructors, match-makers, or whatever they call themselves and take their course. You can learn their techniques and maybe learn the definition of confidence. We can almost guarantee they are all going to teach something congruence.
They are going to say it is the most important thing. They are going to say it is when everything lines up you have attraction and a foundation for a relationship. That congruence is when everything comes together.
They are not 100% wrong. That is partially what congruence is. However, it is only a piece of the entire puzzle and if you are missing the rest of the puzzle, congruence alone doesn’t work. It won’t work for women, and it won’t work for men.
We found those missing pieces in research studies. It took the researchers 15 years to discover it themselves. We then tested it and found that when you have everything the person you are looking to build something with is not only attracted initially but throughout the entire relationship.
When you only get half of it, they are only attracted for a short period of time.
Even if they end up having the best sex of their life they’ll still end up losing attraction for you over the course of your relationship.
Some courses don’t even show how to avoid going out with the wrong person. That’s something else we include with our course.
All of this should be obvious. But, for some reason, it’s not.
The issue is that the dating industry is trying to take what they have taught for years and change it to what people really need. Along with this, the bad information that is out there never really goes away. It keeps cycling around and is repackaged as some kind of “new understanding.” It’s slaughtering your life and opportunities.
Now, are these puzzle pieces we found a secret? No. As we said we found it in a research study. We just knew where it fit in the dating, romance, and relationship scheme and how to tie it all together.
The only question is how do you learn it?
It Starts With The MostExtensively Researched Area Of Life… Love
John has taught live programs and courses over the years. He has a methodology that has taken him years to perfect.
When it comes to love and building a relationship it starts with you. Identifying who you are and what you stand for. That’s where John’s expertise in teaching hard to comprehend comes into the dynamic of the course John and Ashley have put together.
When people start defining who they are and what they really want in a relationship they can see their realities shattering. A shift starts to happen as they discover and identify who they really are. The teaching method that John uses will “push” you through the barriers so you can move forward.
It doesn’t stop there though. Everything we have is based on the most researched area of life. Sociologists, psychologists, and philosophers have been studying love and emotions since the beginning of time.
We use that mountain of research so that you can create the lifestyle and find the relationships that you have been chasing and desire.
Armed with that information we are able to help you identify those invisible barriers that keep coming back and sabotaging your relationships and life aspirations.
Instead of just being able to talk to a girl or guy at a party or nightclub, you can talk to them anywhere at any time.
When you are talking to a person, and all the pieces are in place, they should naturally take an interest in you.
You should never feel like if they see the “real you” that they wouldn’t be attracted to you.
Our course is made so that have a detailed roadmap of step-by-step instructions to become your authentic self.
Knowing these steps is one of the reasons that John and Ashley are so successful at meeting other people and establishing different types of relationships.
We have laid out the entire path for you. Every detail and all the major important issues have been anticipated and addressed. Those issues you find frustrating. The ones you believe will “make you or break you.”
But We Go Deeper
We Do A Deep Dive Into The Small Details
Many of the programs and courses that are out there do not go into the details. Some will touch on them, or worse hint at them. They never really cover them.
It’s these details that go beyond the surface that builds the chemistry between two people. You can learn all the surface level stuff you want. But, without these underlying subtitles, you don’t develop the “vibe” that creates the “total package” people are looking for.
These are the things that can take you from “so-so” to “I want to get to know you. Like now.”
As you go through the course you will see us referring you back to previous lessons. Then you get that “lightbulb” moment and everything seems so obvious. It will be like “why haven’t I seen that before?”
This is a course that can show you a clear path to the life you want? This goes far beyond just dating, romance, and relationships. It can affect every aspect of your life. Your friendships, acquaintances, jobs, career, money-making opportunities, and much more.
We are teaching you a bunch of “techniques” or a bag of tricks.
We Show You
- How to identify who you are.
- How to boost or change your personality. (Optional)
- How to identify what is holding you back and let it go.
- How to show your personality into the world.
- How to set boundaries.
- A full lesson on “secret” congruence. It’s not a secret, really.
- How to do initial conversations and transition them.
- How to flirt.
- Identify Red flags.
- How to ask for the date.
- And a lot more.
This course works for BOTH women and men. This is the first course of it’s kind to be published that works for both genders. This isn’t anything new to the Girls Ask Guys Show as much of our information is gender-neutral. Anything gender-specific is marked as such.